My son has never responded well to time outs as a disciplinary tool. He seems to behave much better if there’s a threat of having something he loves taken away (such as a toy, watching a favorite TV show, or listening to his favorite music). My sister-in-law, however, has great success in using time outs on her 3 year old son. She tells him he must sit in a certain chair and not talk to anyone or do anything for the amount of time he’s in time out (usually 3 minutes, one for every year of age). I think I might have to tell her about this sale at ToysRUs.com on the Levels of Discovery Boys Time Out Rocker. It even comes with a timer you can set for a maximum of 15 minutes. This looks like a wonderful, attractive piece of furniture that can be useful as well. You can view it at ToysRUs.com, where it’s currently on sale for $49.99 (regularly $109.99).

I really like the idea of a Time Out Rocker but I’ve yet to put it to the test. Does it make a difference having a designated seat to go with the designated time-out spot? I think it might, in a positive way. It would be a constant reminder to your child that there are consequences, and that’s a very valuable lesson to learn for any of us. The natural rocking motion may also help to soothe nerves. You might like to place a basket or small shelf near the chair with books that teach lessons or books of children’s poetry, or even a journal. Encourage your child to express himself in all situations.

Made by Levels of Discovery, the Time Out Rocker is also available in Pink for little girls who need an occasional time-out. Visit BarefootBella.net,  where they are priced at $119.95.

I know a Time-Out Spot is supposed to be a place to reflect on one’s misbehavior, but what if your child actually liked it? I mean, this Circular Pink Time Out Spot has got to be more appealing than standing in a corner. With this soft Time Out Spot your child may go willingly. The “spot” is a rug that is backed with a non-skid surface so that children cannot “scoot” across the room while in time out.

Depending on your child’s age, you might think about placing a few carefully chosen children’s books that have to do with “behavior.” How about a journal for “reflecting.” You and your child can discuss their written thoughts about their behavior. It doesn’t have to be a writing assignment, just a starting point for a conversation. It may help to diffuse the tension and frustration of the moment and be an opportunity for you and your child to communicate.

Time Out Spots are 27″ in diameter and are machine washable. It is recommended they be washed in cold water on the gentle cycle with a mild detergent only. Lay them flat to dry. If necessary, spot clean with mild soap and water. Each Time Out Spot will arrive wrapped in cellophane and tied with a co-ordinated ribbon - ready for gift giving.

You can purchase one for £24.95/$48.67(US) at Kiddymania.com.